Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Is the Seven-Year-Itch Threatening Your Marriage?
Eight point two years: that’s the length of the average marriage for first-timers. Many say it makes perfect sense—after all, the seven-year-itch took its toll, and couples were ready to throw in the towel. What does research have to say about it? Adult Development Actually, researchers note that adults do cycle through life in… Read More »
The Impact of Social Media on Your Divorce
You’re going through a divorce, and you feel as though your emotions are taking you on a roller coaster ride. One day you feel completely broken and alone, another you’re overcome with disbelief and rage. That turns into confidence and reckless abandon. All of that is normal and nothing to be worried about. What… Read More »
Who’s the Father? Establishing Paternity in Florida
Most people would agree that fathers can play an important role in the lives of children. While there’s no disputing that plenty of people grow up with absentee fathers and turn out perfectly fine, for those lucky enough to have their dads actively involved in their lives, the benefits can be numerous. In addition… Read More »
Fighting the Prenup: Kevin Costner’s Case
Hollywood icon, Kevin Costner, surely never imagined that the “ironclad” prenuptial agreement he and estranged wife Christine Baumgartner signed almost twenty years ago wouldn’t hold water! But now that Baumgartner has filed for divorce, she’s challenging the prenup with a focus on the terms of her living arrangements, what she can take from the… Read More »
Divorcees: Did You Know You May Be Eligible for Social Security Benefits Based on Your Former Spouse’s Earnings?
Many people don’t realize that they may be able to get a percentage of their former spouse’s Social Security benefits. For seniors who may be contemplating divorce, this could address concerns about how to make ends meet following a split. Gray divorce is becoming more common these days, so there are plenty of people… Read More »
You, too, Can Make Co-parenting Work in Divorce
Co-parenting: it sounds so easy, but it can be so challenging! You care intensely about your children, and it’s tough to give up control to someone you barely even like (your ex). Even if you have a decent relationship with your former spouse and a shared commitment to your kids, there will be tough… Read More »
Reasons Divorce Might be Best– Some May Surprise You
What does a failing marriage look like? Is it filled with irresistible passion that sometimes becomes frightening and violent? Is it silent and companionable, but also lackluster? Is the relationship sagging because it hasn’t been nurtured in so long? Or is it loud and tumultuous, zigzagging through crazy moods, surprises, and shocks? Believe it… Read More »
When Domestic Violence Impacts Child Custody in Divorce
When it comes to child custody in Florida divorce, the courts generally prefer shared physical and legal custody so that each parent can participate equally in decision-making and in the raising of the kids to the largest extent possible. However, when there is a history of domestic violence (DV) in families, shared living arrangements… Read More »
Divorce Issues You Need to Address
If you’re headed toward a divorce, you likely know that the coming weeks and months may be a little bumpy. But you may not know precisely what kinds of decisions you’ll be facing. There are certain issues couples face as they split; here’s a little preview of what’s ahead. Property Division One big issue… Read More »
Misconceptions About Divorce
If you’ve been thinking about divorce and are about to pull the trigger, be sure to do a little research so you’re not completely blown away by the reality of what’s ahead. Even though you may have seen TV divorces and maybe even have friends and family who’ve gone through it, things aren’t always… Read More »
