Category Archives: Divorce
Avoiding the Anger and Hatred in Divorce
Everyone knows that divorce is an incredibly stressful experience, and one that leaves many people wallowing in feelings of despair, resentment, and even hatred. But those emotions don’t have to rule your life. There are some things you can do to address them before they get out of control. Fear: Addressing your fears head-on… Read More »
How to Avoid Kids Taking Sides in Divorce
Divorce is tough enough without having to deal with your own kids hating you for it. Sure, if you’re the parent they’ve chosen as the good guy, it feels pretty great–even validating. Although you may not say it out loud, you’re glad that you’re the favorite, and you believe you’ve earned that spot handily…. Read More »
Gray Divorce on the Rise as a Result of Longevity
If you’ve been married for a while, maybe the doldrums have kicked in and you find yourself feeling somewhat disconnected from your spouse. Maybe you still love one another, but you feel that the excitement and passion that defined your early days together has fizzled. Even though you’ve had a satisfying marriage in many… Read More »
What Does Divorce Do to Kids?
One of the biggest concerns unhappy couples have as they contemplate divorce is whether it will damage their children. To be fair, we know that children who are exposed to unhappy parents, whether those parents are together or apart, can suffer ill effects. Here’s what research says about children of divorce and the potential… Read More »
Spousal Support Before, During, and After Divorce
One of the key factors impacting financial well-being while considering divorce is spousal support. Most people understand generally that the financial need of a lesser earning spouse is weighed against the higher earning spouse’s ability to pay. But there are still a lot of details around spousal support that remain a mystery for many… Read More »
Narcissistic Abuse in a Marriage
Do you find yourself wondering if you’re losing your mind sometimes? You’ve perceived events in one way, but your spouse tells you you’re way off. You may not have considered this possibility that you are married to a narcissist who is handling you in your daily life. It’s Intentional The thing about narcissistic abuse… Read More »
What Happens to Frozen Embryos in a Divorce?
A recent case in New York reveals the emotional and legal challenges couples face when dealing with a divorcing couple battling over stored embryos. 47-year-old woman viewed those embryos as her last chance to become a mother. Her spouse believed his religion dictated that they should be donated or destroyed. The resulting turmoil led… Read More »
Divorce When the Grass is Greener on the Other Side: An Analogy
If you are thinking about getting a divorce because there’s just no spark at home anymore, you’ve likely fallen prey to the old adage that the grass is greener on the other side. While that may very well be true, so too is the notion that the grass is greener that gets watered. Perhaps,… Read More »
The Aftermath of Divorce: What’s Your Strategy?
Following your divorce, you, like many others, will be dealing with a slew of emotions due to experiencing a huge shift in your obligations, your finances, and your living space. Truly, grief following divorce is very real. While there are plenty of people who adjust to the upheaval with aplomb, many others do not…. Read More »
Is Your Marriage Over at the 8-Year Mark?
We’ve all heard of the seven-year-itch, but is it just an old wives’ tale or is it something you need to be concerned about? The truth is—as per the census bureau—first marriages last an average of just 8.2 years. That means some good years, followed by discontent, and by the time the divorce is… Read More »
