Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Getting Over Your Divorce
If you’ve ever known anyone who is wallowing in divorce misery years after their marriage ended, you know you don’t want to be like that. So how do some people make a smooth transition to their new life, while others seem to flounder for years and years? Perhaps one factor relates to one’s ability… Read More »
When Domestic Violence is Aimed at Men
When many people think about domestic violence (DV), they picture a battered wife whose drunken husband got out of control. But that is absolutely not the only way DV occurs. In fact, there are plenty of situations when men, not women, are the victims of violent attacks. But when a man gets a black… Read More »
Good-bye to Permanent Alimony in Florida
It’s been in the works for a while now, and many hoped it would never come to this: but an overhaul to Florida’s alimony laws was signed into law this year, and the changes will be monumental. SB 1416: Alimony Recipient’s Take on it Under SB 1416 permanent alimony has been eliminated, and replaced… Read More »
When You Realize You’ve Married Bridezilla
If it didn’t take long to realize that getting married was a massive mistake, you may be in search of a local divorce attorney. While marital bliss seemed attainable at the time, as soon as the rose-colored glasses came off, it was clear that your blushing bride was nothing short of a Bridezilla, and… Read More »
Divorce: Say Yes to Smart Moves and No to Foolish Ones
Divorce can be nerve-wracking, but there’s no sense making things more difficult than they need to be. Before you get started, consider what some experts recommend you should and shouldn’t do: Yes No Be sure to contact a local divorce attorney who will represent your interests: Outcomes are generally better when you and… Read More »
Urgent Reminder: Address Estate Planning After Divorce
One of the things many people neglect to address following divorce is estate planning. But making revisions may be one of the most important things you should do! Start by ensuring your estate planner has a copy of your divorce agreement so that any requirements you may have toward your ex are not overlooked…. Read More »
Effective Co-Parenting Back-to-School Tips
As co-parent to your kids, you know that communicating and cooperating benefits everyone, and most importantly, makes the children feel loved and secure. So regardless of any negative feelings you may have toward your ex, you put on a brave face and make things work for the kids. With the freedom of summer behind… Read More »
Is the Seven-Year-Itch Threatening Your Marriage?
Eight point two years: that’s the length of the average marriage for first-timers. Many say it makes perfect sense—after all, the seven-year-itch took its toll, and couples were ready to throw in the towel. What does research have to say about it? Adult Development Actually, researchers note that adults do cycle through life in… Read More »
The Impact of Social Media on Your Divorce
You’re going through a divorce, and you feel as though your emotions are taking you on a roller coaster ride. One day you feel completely broken and alone, another you’re overcome with disbelief and rage. That turns into confidence and reckless abandon. All of that is normal and nothing to be worried about. What… Read More »
Who’s the Father? Establishing Paternity in Florida
Most people would agree that fathers can play an important role in the lives of children. While there’s no disputing that plenty of people grow up with absentee fathers and turn out perfectly fine, for those lucky enough to have their dads actively involved in their lives, the benefits can be numerous. In addition… Read More »
