Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Is it a Good Idea to Date During Divorce?
Anyone going through a divorce may start to think about dating someone new. Is it okay to jump back into the dating world before the divorce is finalized? While there are good reasons to move forward with this idea under certain circumstances, there are also some major risks. Is dating during divorce the right… Read More »
Tax Changes With Divorce
After a legal separation or divorce some people may not realize the changes in tax filing that’s ahead. There is more to worry about beyond who gets what deductions; the array of issues you need to address is quite extensive. Filing Status A person’s filing status depends on whether you were married on January… Read More »
Infidelity and Divorce: the Aftermath for Both Spouses
When someone has an affair and the marriage winds up in divorce, there are emotional costs for everyone to pay! Don’t fool yourself into believing that anyone gets off easily in these situations. The Betrayed The person who was deceived in their marriage by a cheating partner may have to deal with some emotional… Read More »
How to Recover After Divorce
If simply thinking about your divorce brings on spasms of despair, you’re not alone. There are many people who truly suffer through a divorce. But the pain doesn’t last forever; you will be okay. Here are some ideas that may help get you through it: Recognize that the force of what you’re experiencing won’t… Read More »
Men Who Divorce Their Abusers
Without question, any domestic violence situation is about control and coercion—and your situation may be more serious than you imagined. It may seem strange to think of domestic violence as a crime that victimizes men, but the family law attorneys at the WiseLieberman know that what happens behind closed doors in someone’s home can… Read More »
Divorces Surge Post-Election
Have you discovered that your spouse isn’t the person you thought they were, and that realization came about as a result of political differences? It appears that some couples are finding that following the 2024 election results, differing political opinions have shed light on personal philosophies and values, and that has not been a… Read More »
Are You Unsure Whether Divorce is the Right Move for You?
Anyone who is seriously contemplating telling their spouse that they want a divorce may have questions about whether divorce is really the right step to take. If that’s the situation you find yourself in, it may be valuable to do a little more reflection. Mental health worker Mandy Kloppers has developed a series of… Read More »
What Should I Do if My Ex Won’t Pay Child Support?
Divorce can be rough, and it doesn’t help if one partner feels like they are getting shafted. Trying to come up with a way to make ends meet in two separate locations on the same amount of money you’ve always had is certainly a challenge. Nevertheless, the non-custodial and/or higher earning individual does have… Read More »
Divorcing a Spouse Who Won’t Cooperate
Divorce is stressful enough without having to manage a spouse who categorically wants to remain married. How can you move forward with your life without the cooperation of the person you once chose to marry? Understanding Goes a Long Way To start with, try to put yourself in their shoes. Understanding where they are… Read More »
Preparing Women for the Financial Hit Following Divorce
Finances are a chief consideration in any divorce. While both parties stand to lose ground financially, for women, the financial hit can be devastating. Even so, three in four women who are divorced are happier now than when they were married, despite significant financial challenges. Contributions to the Financial Hit According to the United… Read More »
